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5/18/04 Well done Matt! Seeing all the photos of Tara has evoked every emotion in me. I have thought about who I am today because of the deposit your family (Virginia) had made in my life. It was always a joy to baby-sit Tara. She was very easy going and HAPPY! Adam was the same. I am now 36, married for 15 years with three daughters. I am a better father and husband because of the time I spent with Virginia. As a parent I hurt for her. I could not even begin to know what she goes through. I have wanted to call her many times, but what would I say? She has left a lasting impression on me. I thank you for the photos. I pray that God will continue to hold the family in his hands. Today I heard the hymn "Because he lives, I can face tomorrow", with tears in my eyes I tell you this is the only way anybody could get through this. Blessings On You, Frank Perdichizzi Texas Tara's & Adam's favorite Babysitter (haha) 5/18/04 Dear Virgina, You may remember me not by this name but by my previous one "Perdichizzi". Our daughters use to play together and my son Frankie was always over at over at your home when you lived in Bonanza. I cannot begin to express my deepest sympathy of your loss of Tara she was always such a sweet little girl as remember her, I did not have the opportunity to see her as the beautiful young woman she became. I only remember the cute angelic face of a skinny little girl who always seemed so shy. I remember getting the call from Frankie when I lived out west and he had heard it from someone hear in Georgia (he lives in Texas). I recently saw something on the TV about her and they told of her web site. I was so glad to to able to reach out to you and to tell you that you and your Family had been in my prayers since this awful tragedy. I can only imagine the void in your life, the emptiness and all that comes along with it! I never got to know you very well except in passing, please know you and your Family are and will continue to be in my prayers and thoughts. May the Good Lord give you the strength and the healing you will need to continue on! Sincerely ( from my heart) Charlene "Perdichizzi" Ponder 5/18/04 To the family of Tara Baker, I just wanted to let you know that my heart goes out to you all. As a parent, I cannot begin to imagine the pain and anguish that you have gone through and continue to go through. I want you to know that your family is in our hearts and prayers. We also pray that the animal that did this to your beautiful daughter is caught and justice will be served. I know there are no words that can ease your pain. I only hope that your faith can carry you through. Lynn B. Summerville, GA 5/17/04 Hi, Matt! My name is Angela Newton, formerly Angela Barnes. Tara and I were in homeroom together, and my sister Christy was in her Chemistry class, at Lovejoy High School during our time there. I have not had a way of contacting the family to pay my respects since I heard of her death, until now. Tara was such a beautiful young lady. She was an excellent example of who a Christian woman should be. She never waivered in her faith. As it happens for most Christians, we can become discouraged at times in our journey of faith. But, it never failed that Tara always had a way of just lifting me up when I felt discouraged. I have some pictures of us from school and I will cherish those for the rest of my life. Please pass along my love and prayers to the family. God bless you all and may the peace that passes all understanding fill your hearts and comfort you until Jesus returns. Love and prayers always, Angela Barnes-Newton 5/17/04 I TRIED TO SEND AN E-MAIL EARLIER BUT THERE WERE SOME PROBLEMS. I SAW TARA ON CHANNEL 2 LAST NIGHT AND IT JUST REALLY UPSET ME THAT THIS COULD HAPPEN TO SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PERSON. AND FROM THE PICTURES I SAW THAT SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL AS A BABY ALSO. I HOPE YOU FIND OUT WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS AND EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED. I WANT CLOSURE FOR YOU. TARA WOULD BE SO PROUD OF THIS WEBSITE. IT IS A GREAT TRIBUTE TO HER. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK FOR TARA. CHRISTI J. DUBLIN, GA. 5/17/04 TO THE FAMILY OF MS. TARA BAKER, LOSING A CHILD IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS IN LIFE TO ACCEPT. KNOWING THAT GOD LOVED THAT CHILD BETTER THAN WE COULD EVER HAVE LOVED THEM IS THE ONLY THING THAT CAN COMFORT YOUR HEART. I ALSO LOST A CHILD TO VIOLENCE, WE MISS THEM DAILY, BUT KNOWING THAT THEY NOW HAVE THE PEACE OF GOD IS A TRUE BLESSING BY ITSELF. PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY PRAYERS, IN HIS NAME RITA B. 5/16/04 Hello: I saw your concerns on TV-2. moments ago. I will keep eyes and ears. Thanks for this site. John 5/16/04 Just wanted you to know that I finally got around to checking this out---It's GREAT..... Your family works so hard to get closure, yet remember her and her beautiful smile. You are blessed to have such a beautiful daughter and she is lucky to have such a strong and loving family. I admire you guys so much. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!! JAN CASH (FROM SUPERIOR BOOKKEEPING) 5/14/04 Dear Matt, The website is a wonderful tribute to Tara! It takes a lot of time and more importantly...love to do something like this. It will definatly help carry on her memory. While in college my friend and classmate Andy Huff and I got to cover Tara's story for the campus news station. We got to meet the family and we were both touched by the story. Could you pass the following on to them? Thanks. Chris Rosenthal 5/13/04 To the Baker Family, Hello, My name is Brandi (Byrd) Gunnin. I also went to New Hope Baptist church with Tara and grew along with her in the youth group. There are so many precious memories I have of Tara and her beautiful smile and gentle heart. We all went on a senior cruise togther and I still like to look back at the pictures to remember my friend. She thought I was absolutely nuts when I dragged her off the bus and started taking pictures of us all on the beach before our ship departed. However, I am the lucky one now, because I can look back and remember her sweet face. This is such a tragedy and injustice. Tara was the last person on earth who deserved this. But I can look back and know full hearted, that Tara is at the most beautiful beach, in the most beautiful place, where no one can harm or hurt her. She is God's beautiful (SOUTHERN!!!!) Angel. And Tara is at God's side. And when I think of it that way, what more could a person ask for! Justice will be served in God's time. For now we just need to watch the sky and see the beauty of Tara through the southern sunsets and know that she is with peace in God and we need to be at peace with that. In His Love, Brandi 5/13/04 Dear Tara's Family, I don't really know where to begin. I am so thankful that you made this website. After I read all of the news letters, and e-mails Tara's death has become more real to me this week, than it has in the three years she has been gone. I was in the same youth group as Tara at New Hope Baptist Church. Tara was such a friendly and compassionate person. She always made me laugh. Tara truly loved her family, she always showed me and Courtney her new pictures of her sister and brothers. I wasn't able to spend a lot of time with Tara through high school because I moved. The last time I saw Tara was about three months before she was taken from us. Tara came over to our friend Courtney's house. Tara, Courtney, and I just talked and laughed all day. She was telling me about her boyfriend Chris, and how she was still going to be a lawyer. We had so much fun that day just hanging out!! That is how I remember Tara, just laughing and smiling all the time. I can't even imagine what your family is going through right now. I pray that the police will be able to find this monster that took Tara from us. God definitely has another Angel up there with him now. I know Tara is so proud of her family, that is all she ever talked about. I pray that God would just reach down and put his loving arms around each and every one of you, and you can find comfort, rest and peace in His arms!!! Tara will always be remembered, and she will always be with you in your hearts!! I pray that soon there will be some resolution to this horrible nightmare, and justice will be served! I love you all, and keep you all in my prayers daily. Your Sister in Christ Elisabeth Akers 5/12/04 Matt Patrie, The suggested method for anyone wishing to contribute to the reward fund is to send a written pledge for the dollar amount to Chief Joseph Lumpkin, Athens-Clarke County Police, 3035 Lexington Road, Athens, Ga., 30605. The pledge should also contain name, address and any other contact information for the pledger as well as any stipulations for the pledge, such as "upon the arrest and conviction". I will gladly assist anyone in this matter. I have viewed the website and certainly hope that there is some comfort to you and family from the many responses received and those yet to come. I hope something positive in assisting with the investigation will surface. Sgt. Mike Tyndell 5/12/04 Last year I sent an email to the t.v. show "American Justice" asking that they look into Tara's case. Unfortunately, I never got a response. I believe that the involvement of this widely respected program would help in the discovery of Tara's murderer. It may not solve it but would help in the investigation. I live within 2 miles of where Tara died. I also think of Jennifer Stone. She was murdered in a similar way in downtown Athens.... 1992 I believe. I am a 52 year old white female and that is why I keep a look out on cases such as Tara's. I hate to give the trite condolence. Nothing can soothe you over your loss. However, I am sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Susan 5/11/04 Thank you Matt for taking the time to read my e-mail and to share it with the Baker family. It is an honor to have my e-mail put on your web site. God put it on my heart to poor out my feelings. I love to pray for people. We all need it. I have people praying for me and my family. One day soon my brother, we will be with the Lord and all his angel`s and saints. Tara will be there with her big beautiful smile all dressed in white. That will be a great day. Death is a part of life. We all have to die. It is only one chapter in the book. The best part is the ending. We will spend the rest of eternity with the Lord for ever and ever amen. So you see , we all have something to look forward to. Take care my brother. Patrick Henderson Athens, Georgia 5/11/04 [Sorority Sister Amy] 5/11/04 I have heard about and watched about this case from the beginning and am disheartened to see they have not charged any suspect(s) for the murder of this beautiful young woman. My prayers are with the family of Tara. Ray Langston 5/11/04 I haven't know ur daughter but when my wife is telling me about ur daughter, I really sorry 4 what a murder did to ur daughter but who so ever that done a such to u may the lord review the person u did that and I also pray 4 the family that, such thing will never come to the family again in Jesus name, Amen. Segun Onabanjo 5/11/04 Matt - I went to Lovejoy with Tara and have lived outside of GA for about 8 years. I have just moved back and in turn just learned of Tara's death. Words really can not describe my sympathy for you and your family. You are in my prayers. Karen